Six Things to Remember when you’re discouraged in pastoral ministry…
It doesn’t take long into every new year for discouragement to make a visit to the pastor’s heart. The excitement and freshness is soon replaced with anxiety, discouragement, and weariness. Those are normal feelings, not abnormal. You’re not a bad leader or a bad pastor just because you’re dealing with real visceral emotions.
1. Remember God Loves you.
The greatest motive for serving God is love. You do what you do because of God’s great love for you. He doesn’t see you as a failure. He’s not mad at you. He has compassion on you in your humanity and understands far greater than you or I the pains and setbacks of ministry. He loves you unconditionally so let his love move you forward by faith…
Also, Chuck Smith, who does not like cigarette butts
It’s my personal opinion that people who smoke have one of the dirtiest habits in the world. They always smell and they leave a smell wherever they go. It’s so easy to detect someone who smokes. All you have to do is walk by and you can smell it on their clothes. You go into a house where people smoke, you go over and take a whiff of the drapery and it will knock you out. It’s just a dirty habit. But worse than that, they throw their cigarette butts down anywhere. Then they usually take their foot and wipe it across the cigarette butt to put out the glow, leaving a mess on the sidewalk. When people come to church, many times they will come up smoking and, as they get ready to go into the church, they just throw down the cigarette, and take their foot across it. Who is supposed to pick up the cigarette butt?
As I was growing up, I was taught by my mother never to touch a cigarette butt or a cigarette. I was so averse to cigarettes that even to the present day I can’t touch one without somehow feeling defiled. Every time I reach down to pick up a cigarette butt, the minute I touch it, there’s something from my early childhood that just revolts. I hate it! As I walk around the church grounds and see cigarette butts, I don’t like how they look on the ground, so I pick them up. But, I found that as I was picking them up I was complaining against whoever put the thing down there. I would think, “Dirty, stinking inconsiderate, careless, thoughtless people.”
Then the Lord spoke to my heart. He simply said, “Who are you serving?” I said, “I am serving You, Lord.” And He replied, “Then quit your griping.” So don’t serve with a bitter heart. Don’t serve with resentment. If I’m picking up cigarette butts and thinking of dirty people, then I resent it doing it. But, if I think, “Well, Lord, I’ll keep Your grounds clean,” then I find that I can pick them up and dispose of them without having that inner disgust because I’m doing it for Jesus – not for anyone else’s approval, but just for You, Lord. As the Scriptures tell us: “Whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus.” (Colossians 3:17).
There’s no more important attitude to have in the ministry. We need to serve as unto the Lord because we’re going to find people obnoxious. We’re going to find them unthankful. We’re going to find that they’re demanding, and that many times they’re quite miserable to be around. So, if you think, “I’ve got to serve them,” it will get to you. But, if you think, “I’m serving the Lord,” then you’ll be able to handle it. Whatever our service, we must do it as unto the Lord, knowing that from the Lord, you will receive your reward.